Yet so many testimonies on social media platforms like Tete Fadzi on Twitter, Tete Jenny on Facebook and Jackie Ngarande on Facebook show the opposite and prove that there are men that make the effort.

Jackie Ngarande posted a testimony sent to her inbox by a follower. In the testimony, the married man talks about how he empowered his wife to start a business of buying and selling. She started off buying her wares from Mbare and later bought from South Africa, Tanzania and Turkey.

The man says his wife excelled in her business so well she even has more money than he has. Yet after helping her establish herself in the business she started looking down on the man. She advised him to stop hanging out with people she considered low class and even had disputes with the man’s relatives.

As if that’s not enough, she also started having an affair with a well-known man in Harare who also orders his wares from Turkey. The man claims that they use the trips to Turkey as an opportunity to see each other and spend time together. At the end of his message, the man expresses that he has decided to divorce his wife and does not encourage men to empower women as they will end up looking down on them.

This is not the first case posted on social media. Apparently, this is very common in Zimbabwe the very same country with hoards of women that complain that “the streets” are dry. There have been stories of men who send their girlfriends to school and are later dumped by the same girlfriends. It’s baffling how these stories are always flooding the timeline.

Below is the full story as told on Jackie Ngarande’s Facebook page.

“Tete Ngarande I need help.

I love my wife do much to extend of opening her a business she is passionate about ,I sacrificed everything for her to become a business owner that she is today,you always preach women empowerment ,zvechokwadi I empowered her and she is happy.

Mukadzi wangu Tete akatanga achinohodha kumbare nekombi ,from mbare akatanga kuenda ku SA nebus,akazotanga kuenda kuSA nendege.

As the business was growing every stage of the business I would always top up capital n funding,From SA by air to Tanzania by Air ,from Tanzania by Air to Turkey by Air.Tete mukadzi wangu is now very successful zvekuti inini ndinomuchivawo,Zvese izvi ndaiiitira kuti ndinofa handisi simba Tete, but everysince mukadzi wangu business rake rakatanga kukura anondishora Tete,kundireducer sekamwana.

Munotiiko Tete,anovhaira mukanzwa achitaura so munoti yaaaa Kana accent yaRuvheneko inosara pasi,Anozvida kani Tete.She has changed on me and all my family member ,she even said my association matters ,I no longer associate myself with shallow minds ,Tete I have never cheated on my wife ,infact ndiri murume kwaye,So besides kudadirwa uku nekuzvida kwaakuita ,I discovered that when she goes to Turkey she will be cheating with guy who runs a one of the biggest stores of male clothing here in Harare,so they travel together iyu achinoorder masuits uyu mukadzi wangu aching hodhawo zvake.

Mamessages avo ese ndinawo ndokutumirai zvese nepictures avo ,So ndangoti ndikuudzeiwo the outcome sometimes when you empower a woman ,unosara usisiri weclass yake ,plus futi vakadzi vevanhu who go to turkey ,some are honest,some are cheating ikoko ,it’s lk a Harbour of buying n selling and prostituting  aswell.

Mukadzi ndafunga kusiya ,everything I acquired with her ndinosiya ,ndoda kubuda in this marriage nemweya wangu.

Don’t forget me in your prayers family Tete mapictures ayo maona vatori vekuziva.”

English translation below

“Aunty Ngarande I need help.

I love my wife do much to extend of opening a business she is passionate about, I sacrificed everything for her to become the business owner that she is today. You always preach women empowerment, truthfully, I empowered her and she is happy.

My wife started off ordering her wares from Mbare in a minibus, then she started ordering them from South Africa by bus/coach. Then she started going to South Africa by plane.

As the business was growing at every stage of the business I would always top up capital n funding. From SA by air to Tanzania by Air. From Tanzania by Air to Turkey by Air. Aunty my wife is now very successful such that I also wish I was her. I did this such that even if I die, she would be fine but ever since my wife’s business started getting bigger, she looks down upon me Aunty. She treats me like a mere child.

What do you have to say, Aunty, about a woman who shows off. If you listen to her talking you’ll be amazed. Even her accent is better than Ruvheneko’s. She’s so into herself Aunty. She has changed her behaviour towards me and all my family members. She even said who I associate with matters, I no longer associate myself with shallow minds. Aunty, I have never cheated on my wife, in fact, I am a very decent man. So besides her showing off and the fact that she’s so into herself, I discovered that when she goes to Turkey she will be cheating with a guy who runs one of the biggest stores of male clothing here in Harare. So they travel together and he will be ordering his suits whilst my wife orders her wares.

I have all their messages and I will send them as well as their pictures.  I just thought to let you know the outcome. Sometimes when you empower a woman. You’re left behind as you will no longer be of her class. And the wives of other men who go to Turkey, some are honest, some are cheating there. It’s like a Harbour for buying and selling and prostituting as well.

I have decided to leave my wife and, everything I acquired with her. I want to walk out of this marriage with my spirit intact.

Don’t forget me in your prayers family Aunty and I have sent the pictures, I’m sure you know the people in them.”

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Zwitter Awards

Zwitter Awards were started this year and they seek to entertain Zimbabwe’s on twitter as they get them to vote for the content creator that did it most for them in 2021. The 2021 edition is the first edition of these awards.

The Zwitter Awards compromised of 100 Zwelebs (Zimbabweans considered celebrities on twitter) and these 100 were suggested by various Zimbabwean twitter users.

If you were wondering whether there were prizes for winners of these awards, yes there are!

Prizes

The prizes awarded at these awards were as follows:

Prizes for the Winner and 2nd place winner

( 1 Winner)
¹ 50usd
² 1kg sausages #Barneysmeat
³ T-shirt @candacy_rutendo
⁴ Hotplate Grill meal
⁵ Free company registration @tapmub_consulta

( 2nd Winner)
¹ T-shirt
² Hotplate Grill meal
³ 1kg sausage#ZwitterAwards2021

— ZWITTER PEOPLE'S CHOICE AWARDS (@ZwitterChoice) January 1, 2022

In addition to the above, 10 more Zwelebs were awarded free Hotplate Grill meals for making it to the top 10 in the awards. These ten were:

Finally, the first and second winners for 2021 Zwitter Awards were the following:

Number 2

Among other varied content, Yvonne Maphosa is also popular for being the queen of blocking other twitter users who might not match her energy. Yvonne was also one of the winners at the Ndebele Twitter Awards.

Number 1

Tete Fadzi is popular for the anonymous contributions that people send to her to seek advice. These contributions have sparked much attention and controversial discussions as a result of their contents. Provoker Magazine has previously looked into some of the conversations started as a result of the Tete Fadzi platform including why married women cheat and other dark confessions.

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Thanks to Tete Fadzi, who recently stylishly celebrated her twitter anniversary, we now have a lot of crazy confessions to catch up with. If that’s the sort of thing you like.

View some of the crazy confessions below:

What are your thoughts?

Let us know in the comment section below.

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Twitter celebrities growing an account from scratch know that the first year is the most difficult. So much of consistency and determination is required. The first stage is different from the later stages as the brand will not have gained trust. In later stages when the brand is trusted people will be more inclined to follow.

The account currently sits at 52.3k followers. One year of giving people advice and discussing important societal issues.

View the pictures of the celebration below:

We have previously shared some of the content Tete Fadzie addresses. In the article we looked at the issue of why married women cheat and we took Tete Fadzi’s comments into much consideration. Check that out here.

Congratulations Tete Fadzi for this milestone.

Any thoughts?

Let us know in the comment section below.

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Loneliness

Husband not providing financially

Married an Abusive Man

For Love and Affection

Husband Spoil Her

To get Even with Husbands

Lack of Appreciation

Long Distance Relationships

Lack of Affection

Lack of Maintenance

There you have it people, if you fix all the areas above you’ll live happily ever after.

What do you make of this advice? Leave a comment below

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